That my ex, who I still live with for now, talks to me in an unkind way. I have done literally nothing to provoke it. But it happens anyway. And if I try to say anything about it, she gets defensive and says that she just can’t be herself around me or she isn’t allowed to have emotions. Which isn’t the case at all. I just don’t like being talked to in a mean tone. Especially when I didn’t do anything to potentially deserve it. I’m literally making dinner for her right now! I don’t get it.