The southern culture here of food, substance, lake life, religion etc is a real thing you encounter in a find your sober journey. The role of culture. The role of family dynamics and exposure to things. To take time a discover a path and a community that is new or different than culture or what you know is something u have to take time to do. Tips...get that time alone, then rebuild a very small community around something new...it could be anything. Birdwatching lol. You have to create things on this side of living more substance free. You have to trust it even though it doesn't give fast immediate relief. It's a long path. This path is a long path that requires that we create vs consume.