Had to quit alcohol and nicotine flat out no negotiations but I got a lockbox for my weed moderation and it has made all the difference. I used to have an all or nothing perspective but that just didn’t work for me. Limiting myself helps me show myself I have power over the substance and my life is the same without it. The substances just made it easier for me to put up with nonsense and this uncomfortable reality is what I’m supposed to deal with sober