My biggest fear about sobriety is missing out. Although many moments were terrible while using substances there were also good moments I like to remember. I‘m afraid I won’t have moments like those anymore and it makes me sad, since I’m a person that likes to take everything from life. I overcome this fear by knowing that while abusing substances I am missing out on a lot of other, healthier, more truthful moments. So I want to stop gaslighting myself into thinking I will miss out on something, it’s the opposite- there’s so much new to come.