Lying about vices. Family and friends hiding addictions and then glorifying them as a way to “get by” after I’ve found out made me think this was life. I grew up thinking everyone had a drink/smoke hidden “innocently” for their own wellbeing. Losing trust and faith in people for lying about these things should only make me want to be honest, since it hurt more to “find out” than to learn honestly about addictions and understand their cause and effect from the get-go. Hope this makes sense!