I’m proud of holding my relationship with my family at a distance - they make staying sober difficult because they’re very judgmental, drink, and don’t really understand it. At the same time, my family in the past was a trigger for me to start drinking so putting them on a tight leash has helped me stay away from the drive to pick up the bottle. i think the boundary of distancing myself showed me that family isn’t always blood since blood can be a trigger.